“March to Empathy” – Nikki Guyett – TEDx Bow Valley College
“In her talk March to Empathy, Nikki Guyett, describes how a 100 km march pushed her both physically, and emotionally. What started as a journey, ignited by curiosity and challenge, became an experience grounded in a much larger calling.”
For 20 years Randy Haatvedt was a customer at Pat Dardano’s shoeshine stand. When Randy saw Pat’s health declining because of kidney disease, “I got thinking, maybe I could give Pat a kidney,” says Randy. On July 11, 2012, Pat received the life-changing transplant, and now they share a bond of a lifetime. “I tell everyone this is the man who saved my life,” Pat smiles. Randy is now a 5-time Kidney Marcher and a pit stop sponsor. “It brings tears to my eyes. No one in Randy’s family has kidney disease. He just decided to step up, and give the ultimate gift – the gift of life,” says Joyce Van Deurzen, Executive Director, the Kidney Foundation of Canada (Southern Alberta).
Michelle MacKinnon flies from Ontario every year to do Kidney March. Why? She needs to do something really big in memory of her son David. The very day she was scheduled to give him her left kidney, David died from the complications of kidney disease. He was 18 years old. “The March isn’t going to bring David back. But I do it with my son Andrew to honour David, and every other kidney patient in Canada,” she smiles through tears. Four years after David’s death Michelle saw another mom on Facebook looking for a kidney donor for her two-year-old son. Michelle was a match! On May 13, 2015, she gave the gift of life to a perfect stranger. “We’ve since become family friends and seeing their joy as he grows up, it keeps David’s memory close to all of our hearts.”
This courageous warrior and shining light in our Kidney March family left us suddenly on May 27, 2019 at age 22. Nicole meant so much to so many people. Despite being on dialysis, her more than 100 surgeries, and many health challenges, she was always an enthusiastic and bright young woman, eager to befriend everyone in the true spirit of Kidney March. Kidney March is about doing the most you can possibly do and that was truly Nicole. She was a relentless advocate for the kidney cause. We know her story will continue to be one of inspiration and true strength above adversity. Our hearts go out to her mom, Sherri, and her sister, Rachel, who have been a big part of Kidney March since the beginning. Also to her friends, doctors and nurses who loved her dearly. Nicole, with every step we take you will always be there with us.
Heather Dean and Janice MacKay
Heather Dean, RN CNeph(C), Nurse Clinician at the South Calgary Dialysis Centre, and Janice MacKay, RN, CNeph(C), CCRP, a Research Manager at the University of Calgary, are best friends and colleagues. They’ve walked in every Kidney March since 2010 – that’s 900 kilometres to honour their patients. “They are always with us in our hearts,” says Heather. “Our patients are our heros,” Janice adds.
Carole Stoker has crewed every Kidney March since it began. When Marchers arrive at pit stops Carole lifts their spirits with her zany dance moves and dazzling smile. Notice that “Sumo Lady” is missing a kidney on the left side of her sumo suit? That’s because Carole donated her left kidney to her sister-in-law Yvonne Sherren in 2015. “If I had an extra, I would do it again,” Carole laughs. “It feels great. We are much closer now. It’s grown our relationship,” she says.
Dr. Dan Muruve, a kidney specialist and professor at the University of Calgary, is also Medical Director of Alberta Health Services’ Southern Alberta Renal Program and Canada Research Chair in Personalized Medicine, Inflammation and Kidney Disease. At Kidney March, he gets weary Marchers up and dancing by tearing up the stage at Kidney-O-Kee.
Stuart and Cheryl Duff
“We joined Kidney March the very first year and Kidney Marchers have become like family,” says Stuart Duff who donated his kidney to his wife Cheryl in June of 2016. “My husband truly is my perfect match,” says Cheryl Duff. “After 24 years of struggling with kidney disease, I am back to a full life with my new kidney on board.”